Etymology
The word democracy derives from the ancient Greek demokratia formed from the roots demos, "people", "the mob", "the many" and kratos "rule" or "power".
"rule by the people" or "power of the mob" or any other possible combination is not what we see nowadays in any democracy. The so-called 'representative democracies' that we have are more and more degenerating into a minority empowered by the many to rule the mob.
We, the people, allow that to happen. At least we are all
free to do
that 
.
But then, what is freedom? Americans can probably say more than Europeans when it comes to "the nazi heritage" but are also checked on to a much further degree by their government than Europeans when it comes to anything to do with "homeland security". Generally speaking I think that individual privacy (in my opinion an important part of 'freedom') is respected more in Europe than in the US. Today at least, that used to be the other way around not too long ago and who knows how that will develop when the EU gets more power over our national affairs and private lives?
Nobody is totally
free, we are only allowed a certain degree of freedom in varying topics by those we have empowered.
Europeans are 'free' to be provided for by tax money (freely paid, of course

) when they can't provide for themselves. Americans are 'free' to work two or more jobs to prevent
not being provided for by tax money saving others a couple of dollars.
There are a myriad of examples like that where one (perceived) 'freedom' leads to the loss of another (real) freedom by both the same and different individuals.
Moral high ground? Nah, just a matter of different perspectives